Imagine this: It's three months from now. It's basically still the same season. And yet, you're confident man-magnet that has her pick of the hottest men.
You walk into any room and are "that girl" - the one that you used to envy and all the men seem to flock to.
Your ex's start hitting you up again - and you're blissfully happy rejecting them. (No more questioning if you should give them another chance. You know you're meant for SO much better!)
Friends ask what you're doing differently.
You have no idea why you didn't do this sooner.
(But don't worry, everything happens for a reason. This is just the right time for you!)
That's what my coaching does.
I know how frustrating it can be to go on tons of dates but to always be let down. To feel depressed and constantly wonder, "Is something wrong with me?"
A few years ago, after I graduated from college, I thought I was living the dream. I was a college grad, at the top of my company, and was finally(!) living with my boyfriend of five years. After some ups and downs throughout college, I just knew that moving in together would solve our problems and take our rocky relationship to the next level. I wanted to be married and have a family in the next few years, so I was obviously eager to transition out of “college-relationship” to “real life, romantic, grown-up relationship”.
But after a few months and no changes (though, trust me, I was DESPERATELY trying!), I had a terrible realization. What I wanted out of a relationship wasn’t in line with the relationship I had. And the man I was dating didn’t even possess some of the important qualities I wanted in a lifelong partner. I was trying to force him (and our relationship) to be something else…I was trying to change something that wasn’t possible to change. This relationship was easy, comfortable, convenient…but was also unhealthy. And when I was honest with myself, I could see that I was being mistreated and underappreciated.
I also knew that I had no clue how to make any of those things happen (or even how to take the first step!) but I made a choice.
Even though I was terrified and had no idea what I would do next, I ended my relationship, packed up my things and moved out – into a multi-cat, rickety old house with four girls - clearly a great environment for meeting a dream guy.
I was scared, lonely, and on my own for the first time in what felt like FOREVER, but I mark that moment as the day my whole life changed course – and as the moment that began the incredible, jaw-dropping life I have today.
The next few years were hard. (Let’s be honest, sometimes being single downright sucked.) I was lonely and desperately wanted to find Mr. Right but had no idea where he was. I was sick of trying to meet guys at crowded bars and going on mediocre dates. I was sick of being the third wheel.
One day, I listed out all of the qualities I wanted in a man (literally), and realized that this "ideal" man really had his life together. Not to mention, he was tall, dark, and super handsome...and he had a bad boy look but was actually a caring romantic. Oh, and he was assertive and stands up for himself but treats me like a princess. Sheesh. Things seemed a little bleak, but I had an epiphany.
Of course! I couldn't expect Mr. Perfect to magically rescue me and solve all of my problems when I hated my job, was broke, and had no clue who I was or what I wanted to do in life.
The big question was...
It took me three years, tons of research, coaching, counseling, dating (lots of dating…), and self-help books (not to mention plenty of ‘trial and error’ experiences), but I finally figured it out. I was on the top of my game. My life was amazing. I was happy and I LOVED myself! I was truly irresistible.
(Psst…it doesn’t have to take YOU three years. This is called Irresistible in 90 Days for a reason…)
I stopped attracting the “players/cheaters/guys not ready for a commitment”, and started attracting relationship-ready MEN. You know, the men you want to bring home for the holidays and flaunt to all your friends. “No I’m sorry, he actually doesn’t have any single brothers...”
Needless to say, I was a changed woman. And I can honestly tell you – when I decided to invest in MYSELF, when I decided to actually put ME first for once – that was the moment everything shifted.
By investing in myself, I learned how to be confident and authentic in who I truly was. I was finally able to live the life I wanted and attract the men I wanted to date (and marry!). I knew what I wanted and needed in a relationship and knew what I didn't want and what I definitely did NOT need.
I married my dream man on a Riviera Mayan rooftop overlooking the ocean, surrounding by 46 of my family members and closest friends. I had my dream fairytale wedding, complete with a ball gown princess dress (hell if I care that we were sweating in Mexico!), and the most amazing wedding week EVER (yes, I also made my wedding into a week-long event). Matt and I had an incredibly romantic honeymoon traveling on a luxury cruise liner throughout Europe, and ate and laughed our way through eleven different countries together.
We’ve had multiple parties thrown for us and our marriage, and couldn’t be more blessed to be surrounded by our family, friends, and love. We have a beautiful four bedroom townhome, we're both working our dream jobs (remotely!), and spend tons of time together laughing, cooking, and binge watching Netflix. The loving relationship we have is way better than anything I could've imagined, and to top it off – I absolutely LOVE my life.
Oh and remember that “dream man list” I made? Matt checks off every single box. Plus way, WAY more.
That incredible happiness and deep love is what I want for you, too. And it IS possible…
How great would it be if you could stop wondering when it'll be your turn for love, and start marveling at the amazing, confident, man-magnet you are – and KNOW the relationship you’ve dreamt about is on its way? (If you don’t already have it, of course!)
What if you could finally get your epic love story (you know, the one that you’re pretty sure isn’t possible)?
All of this is possible for you, and it doesn’t need to take years to get to that point.
Just take a look at my epic love story timeline:
September 23rd 2012 – I was finally at the top of my game – confident, happy, and started at an amazing company I was incredibly passionate about and lucky to work for – not to mention, very desired by men!
October 12th 2012 – I accidentally sat in Matt’s seat at a bar.
October 17th 2012 – Our first date – We talked for four hours straight. (We were so engrossed in each other, we forgot to eat dinner!)
October 27th 2012 – Our third date – We both knew; this was “The One”. (Of course we didn’t say it then!)
November 30th 2012 – Matt asked me to be his girlfriend.
December 23rd 2012 – I love you’s were exchanged.
Christmas-Valentines Day – I was at his place more than mine.
April 2013 – We moved in together and had a place to call our own.
June 2013 – Matt asked if I wanted to start looking at rings. (Um, YES! Hello!!!)
What’s the point of sharing my personal story? I want you to know how fast starting a life with the man of your dreams can happen.
I believe your dream love life exists for a reason. I know mine did! Heck, my life now is actually BETTER than what I dreamt about.
In fact, it'll never happen unless you take the steps to be ready for it. It’s a harsh truth, but Mr. Right isn’t just going to show up at your doorstep, carry you over a puddle and solve all of your problems. (Though, that would be a super cute “How We Met” story.)
It’s just like getting a college degree – you have to put in the work before you’re handed the shiny diploma that everyone wants (but not many people put in the effort to get).
“But Jamie, I’m not sure how to put in the work to get the love life I want!”
Don't fear! I've got you covered.
I’ve designed this program for you – the incredible woman who is ready to take a stand and demand the love life of her dreams once and for all. You’re ready to have the relationship you’ve been dreaming about with the man you can’t live without – and you want the mindset, tools, and knowledge to make that happen. And, you’ll be happy to know that becoming irresistible is just what happens in the process.
1. You will book a free 30 minute discovery session with me.
2. We'll get clear on what you’re struggling with right now, what you want to change, and make sure we're a good fit to work together.
3. You will invest in your life-changing coaching package, I'll send a customized contract and a Welcome Pack that will go even deeper to see what's holding you back in love, and get you moving forward before we even start working together.
4. We set up a weekly coaching appointment.
5. Each week we'll breakthrough what's holding you back in your love life, explore areas of growth, and create a tailored plan so you can start becoming irresistible and get the love life you've always wanted.
Each 90-day program is personalized to fit your needs and may include the following topics:
-Weekly Call with Jamie – Your Dating and Relationship Expert.
-3 months of one-on-one coaching sessions. Twelve (12) 60-Minute Sessions Total.
-Unlimited access to me via email (I respond within 24 hours).
-All sessions are conveniently recorded for future listening. No need to take notes!
-Tailored resources to make huge shifts in your life (i.e., books, videos, webinars).
I have limited spots (2) available at this price until this program is sold out.
or 3 installments of $1,950
If you’re anything like me, you know how it feels to want love and a relationship so badly, but not know how to make it finally happen.
The thoughts of “Why isn’t it happening for me?” and “Is something wrong with me?” consume you - it’s all you can think about and even talk about. Your friends are probably sick of hearing you say ‘you’ll never find a good man’ and cry to them about losers you date (that somehow still break your heart).
You’re getting older, and questioning if you should just take what you can get…and that thought destroys you because you could've sworn you were meant for something better. You want the fairytale, the epic love story, the happily ever after…but it’s just NOT happening.
Trust me, I was there. I had plenty moments of: crazy, dramatic, desperate, ridiculous, embarrassing…it wasn’t pretty. I even had a friend tell me I should “chill out”, just take what I could get and be thankful for it…and I almost did. I almost threw in the towel on true love.
Teetering on the edge of self-pity and depression, I made a decision.
No, I am better than “what I’m getting” from men right now. I DO deserve a fairytale, and the kind of love I dream about. I won’t settle for a relationship that's anything less than everything I desire EVER AGAIN.
And guess what. IT HAPPENED.
Seriously, you know the ‘perfect prince charming, epic fairytale romance, super amazing, ridiculously happy life’ that everyone says isn’t possible? I HAVE IT.
And YOU can, too!
Of course it took hard work, but more than hard work, it took self-belief and the willingness to make some big changes in my life.
I did the inner work that’s required to become irresistible (most people forget that part!), and hired a team of coaches to help me become the incredible woman I was always meant to be.
This just goes to show that when a woman feels called for something and believes it’s possible for her, dreams CAN come true.
There’s no need for you waste anymore of your tears or years waiting around for something to happen. You CAN make the changes to set yourself up for that dream romance and marriage. I did it, you can too!
Your desires and goals exist for a reason – because they are meant for you.
Let’s go on this incredible journey together.
I believe in you.
Send us an email to: firstname.lastname@example.org